GOOD RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FOR THE MEN.
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1. Before you
start a relationship with a lady, you must think carefully about what you are
about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle
lightly.
2. Are you ready
for a relationship with her?
Are you emotionally,
mentally and spiritually mature to meet her needs?
3. Being sexually
attracted to her means absolutely nothing.
It is not a sign of likeness, love or any
other thing your mind may come up with, it may just be your hormones messing
with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life
which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that?
4. This lady has a
history, she has a past. Can you handle it?
Can you handle her
mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams without being
intimidated and becoming jealous?
5. She already had
a life before she met you. Can you fit into and help improve her life?
6. Love is
commitment.
Are you ready to
commit your life to helping her grow and become all that she can be, by God’s
grace?
7. Is she valuable
enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the
accomplishment of her dream? Are you ready to pour your resources into making
her all the Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready, don’t just bother.
8. Before you open
your mouth to say ‘I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of
‘emotional madness’. A lady needs much more than ‘I love you. She needs your
commitment. If you are not ready to make that commitment that will lead to
marriage, please leave her alone in peace and stop wasting her time and
resources as well as yours.
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