DOMESTIC VOILENCE AGAINST WOMEN NOW MISTAKEN AS A WAY OF LIFE.
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No single
relationship or marriage is entirely a bed of rose. Mostly, there are difficult
times, and almost every couple argue now and then, for this, men are advised to
be tolerant.
Domestic violence is taking things to the extreme, it is a pattern of abuse a partner uses to control the behavior of another. It often starts with threats, name-calling, and slamming doors or breaking dishes, and can extend to pushing, slapping, etc. At this point, the signs are so clear and it is advisable proper measures be taken, probably to exit the relationship or marriage, but most women stay for real silly excuses; some call it LOVE, interesting! Some defend his actions by blaming themselves for having done or said something to warrant being beaten up. That is so wrong dear! It is in our nature to be really annoying. oh my! I for instance; Brother, I could annoy you to stupor! It is how we were made. Is it too much to ask that you ignore our stubbornness and ignorance by protecting us instead of taking so much from us?
Domestic violence is taking things to the extreme, it is a pattern of abuse a partner uses to control the behavior of another. It often starts with threats, name-calling, and slamming doors or breaking dishes, and can extend to pushing, slapping, etc. At this point, the signs are so clear and it is advisable proper measures be taken, probably to exit the relationship or marriage, but most women stay for real silly excuses; some call it LOVE, interesting! Some defend his actions by blaming themselves for having done or said something to warrant being beaten up. That is so wrong dear! It is in our nature to be really annoying. oh my! I for instance; Brother, I could annoy you to stupor! It is how we were made. Is it too much to ask that you ignore our stubbornness and ignorance by protecting us instead of taking so much from us?
Some
claim to stay for the sake of their children; It is so funny how humans think
though! For the sake of your children? Like seriously? really? Do you even know
what is good for your child? How do you bring a child up in such an
environment? Do you even know what effects your episodes of being violated has
on your child?
We all came from a woman, we got
our names from a woman. So why do we take so much from our women? Why do we
abuse and beat up our women? Do we hate our women? I think it is time to kill
for our women. It is time to heal our women and be real to our women.
It’s been imposed on women to accept a man’s
behavior, believing it is in his nature to cheat. My question therefore is; why
hasn’t it been imposed on the men to accept and tolerate a woman’s behavior,
because it is in our nature to talk. Some mind what they say, while others
don’t. Some have successfully devised a mechanism to prevent themselves from
nagging, while others can’t stop themselves from nagging.
So many things
in the world today have gone so wrong, and there is little or absolutely
nothing we can do to reverse that, hence to peacefully exist in a world as
such, we must learn to be tolerant of certain attitudes we come in contact
with.
I still cannot
fathom, how exactly do they do it? How do you stop loving a person you once
loved to the extent of beating her up? How do you inflict pain on someone you
say you love? How does love turn to hate? How do you go back on promises made
to a person, by doing everything you promised you would never do? How do you
feel, being the reason for so much pain and sadness?
Many have
hidden under the excuse of being witnesses to marital abuse in their homes
while growing up. Bullshit! Having witnessed such in your homes at childhood,
having seen the pains your mother went through is enough reason for a man to
curse the day he would ever raise his hands on his wife/partner.
Could this be spiritual?
BEHAVIORS
OF A POTENTIAL BATTERER
Ø Jealousy; they hid under the claim of loving you so much, therefore
questions what you do, where you go, who you talk to and who you see.
Ø Controlling behavior; he makes all decisions for you, prevents you from
working or going to school, prevents you from seeing your friends and family
members.
Ø Blames others for all problems or for his own shortcomings.
Ø Cruel to children; expects them to act beyond their capability.
Ø Verbally abusive; use of insulting, cruel and hurtful words on their
partner.
Ø Sees women as inferior to men
Ø Explosive behavior and moodiness, which can shift quickly to
congeniality.
Ø Consciously gives threats of physical force for the purpose of
controlling their partner, or threatens to destroy your property and kill you.
Ø Exerting force during an argument; such as holding down his partner,
physically restraining her from leaving, or pushing or shoving.
#saynotodomesticvoilence#
#bewareofdangerousmen#
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