MY OPINION ABOUT TODAY'S FEMINISM!!!!!!
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It is quite unfortunate d turnout of things in life today. Men gradually loosing every element of respect women once had for them....
Feminist with
different opinions advocating for equality in all ramifications......
Who is to blame
for this?
Growing up my mother
taught me to honor a man. Starting from my father, brothers, and someday my
husband....
Personally, i
respect men, and give kudos to them, for the huge responsibility upon them.
Having to provide for their families… it isn’t ever going be easy being a man.
But then came Civilization bringing with it Education for the Girl Child (Female
child) ... Today women make same impact as men in the world... Could this be
where the problem emanated from?
There also is the
issue of Marriage/Relationships. Infidelity is now a norm. Right from the days
of old, men had always been unfair to the women. Our forefathers married
several wives but a woman is allowed to have just one husband. This tradition
went on smoothly until the introduction of Western Education. Could this be the
source of our problem today?
Remember it was by
introducing education for the girl child, women had access to fairy tales, gradually
nurturing new believes in their minds on how a woman should be treated. Hence,
should we blame the authors of fairytale stories? Hmmmmmmm......
Men on the other
hand regardless of a woman's feelings, forgetting that women are naturally
fragile creatures, beats their chests and raise their shoulders so high and
boasts of infidelity.
But when a woman
does it, it is seen as an abomination... Could this be one of the equalities
the women are asking for?
Growing up as a
girl, I was once cheated on by my partner, when I sought the advice of a
married woman(lecturer) she said, "what if you hadn't caught him"
hence I should overlook it and continue with my relationship.
I am a woman, and I
feel the pain of every woman. It hurts so much to be cheated on. To be broken
hearted is a feeling very few can handle especially as a woman. It could result
in mental issues or even suicide. All these I can best describe as "Man's
Inhumanity to Man".
Without being
partial reverse is the case also with Men being cheated on, results in total
breakdown. Hence both Men and Women are wrong.
But Irrespective
of all faults mentioned, I see things like #Wifenotcook. Very funny! Indeed,
cooking is tiring, but please don't be that kind of a woman! Why would you not
cook? Growing up in your family who did the cooking? A man should only cook if
he chooses to. No matter what a man throws at you, you can forever stand as a
dignified woman. Now u will say "Who Dignity Help?" By dignified
woman i mean chase your dreams, be focused, but at the same time be the woman
you were taught to be not the woman the world is trying to make you be.
It is quite
unfortunate we don’t know how our words and actions affects the younger
generations. The direction the world is heading towards is a sad one. One
without norms/values/traditions.
Gone are the days
when a man misbehaves during his youthful age and goes to a church in search of
a "wife material". Those you see in the clubs are the ones you see in
church. Hahaha
The World is that
bad today.... Fidelity in Relationships/Marriages is nearly impossible!
What a life!
Some get married
and are full of regrets.
Divorce now a
norm! People bragging about it.
Who should we
blame????
It hurts so much
to hear men talk about women like they are worthless, call them names
"Bitches".... It is just sad how life has turned out to be... But who
do we blame?
I think it is time
we found a solution to these problems. Women all over the world are standing up
for themselves, this does not hurt me, but the mannerism at which they do it
does. If something isn’t done fast, soon men would lose their worth to women.
Hence, I leave it
in the hands of men to call their women to order by changing their own
ways(men).
We all came from a
woman, we got our names from a woman. So why do we take so much from our women?
Why do we rape our women? Do we hate our women?
I think it is time
to kill for our women. It is time to heal our women and be real to our women.
But if you don't change your ways now and call women to order, "We Would
Have a Race of Babies That Will Hate the Women That Make the Babies"....
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Hmmm real deep thoughts
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