AN IDEAL MAN VS A BAD MAN.
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Just take a few minutes of your
time, approach a female, could be your sister, a lover, or even a friend. Ask
her to describe her ideal kind of man.
I guarantee you that 70% of responses
you get would contain things like:
He should be;
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Tall.
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handsome
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Romantic.
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Speak at least 3 languages.
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Have a good accent.
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Good in bed.
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Have a brown eye.
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Should have a clean shave
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Should wear a suit to work
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Should ride a good car
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Should have a well-furnished apartment, etc.
Notwithstanding, some of these
traits are actually good to look out for in a man, but looking for all in one
man! You may as well take some clay and mould out your perfect man.
An ideal man should portray the
following traits;
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He must have the fear of God in him: this is a
vital trait an ideal man possesses. One who fears and respects his creator and
believes in his doctrine, has no problem respecting his woman. He would never
betray his wife.
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He must possess a good character: this is
difficult to get, since we live in a negative society. With a good character, a
man can make everybody around him happy. If his character lacks truth, honesty,
and sincerity, then he lacks everything that a relationship requires to
survive. Such people are different from others, and they tend to smile and
laugh more.
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He shows maturity: he knows the time has come to grow up and be
an adult. He handles issues in a responsible way. But immature men are afraid
of commitment, are insecure about their future, and are naive. There is nothing
worse for a woman than having to submit to an insecure man. A woman needs a
strong and mature man by her side, one that knows where he is going in life,
one that is brave enough to solve problems with his own hands and will be able
to care for her like any good partner should.
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He is always honest: this is a great attribute
for an ideal man to have. He would tell you the truth, not just what he thinks
you want to hear. Sometimes, honesty may be hard to deal with, because it is
not want you were expecting to hear. But it is better to have a to have a good
man who is truthful than one who fills you with lies. That is a deceitful man,
not an ideal man.
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He is intelligent: an ideal man thinks before acting or
speaking. This enables him to think thoroughly about the consequences. This
quality gives a woman extra admiration, respect and assurance in her man.
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He owns up, and takes responsibility for his
actions. He accepts his mistakes, he accepts who he is and what he was. He can
tell you he was wrong, he can tell you when he is lost. He can apologize just
to put an end to a problem/misunderstanding.
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An ideal man revisits his beliefs. He resists
formulations, questions belief and embraces ambiguity.
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He listens, that is how he argues. He crafts out
opinions. He can pound the table, take the floor. It is not that he must, but
that he can.
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He looks out for those around him and is good at
his job.
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An ideal man serves in every way, no one taught
him this – to be quiet, to cipher, to watch.
An ideal man is a good man, and a good man is
one to hold onto.
Unlike an ideal man, a Bad man is inconsiderate,
he uses others and has no respect for others. He thinks he is the center of
existence and everybody is just to be used. A bad man is one who thinks other
persons are just means for his gratification.
We doubt the existence of an ideal
man. The truth is, they do exist, and are all around us, but go unnoticed. He
has so much confidence in himself that he does not need to draw attention to
himself.
But a bad man is loud and rude, easily noticed because he announces
his presence.
A bad man sacrifices everybody for
his own self.
Which are you?
Which is your partner?
Iam_peaceaghedo…………………………………………………. writing is my passion!
2 comments
An ideal man.....I like your idea of an ideal man. You should write something too of an ideal woman
ReplyDeleteThere's already a write up on that here http://pansinsight.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/who-is-ideal-woman-judging-from.html
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